a message from Jennifer Hoffman
2011 will see a transformation of the many different aspects of love on both individual and collective levels. This has been a sore spot (literally) for so many people as they have been unable to create or sustain relationships in their life for most of the past decade or longer. Because we define ourselves to such a degree through the presence of love in our lives, being without someone who ‘loves’ us has been extremely challenging. Our love life has either been completely uneventful or so painful that we have abandoned our dreams of love. It’s time for a change and change is coming in 2011.
Do you want a loving, intimate relationship in 2011? Then it’s time to create one because while the energies support it, the real effort lies with us and to accomplish this we need to find a new truth about love. This truth is in the title of this article-the love ‘connection.’ If we want to have a relationship we need to make it about connection, through love and not through our needs. We can no longer look for someone to love us because we can’t or don’t find ourselves lovable, to meet the needs we don’t feel capable of meeting or to resolve our loneliness.
I have often written that we will never find someone who loves us more than we love ourselves and that will be especially true this year. Every place in which we feel unworthy or undeserving of love is an area where we will have lessons until we remember that we are divine, lovable, loved and deserving of the greatest expression of love in our physical world. But the material love is a mirror of our inner self love. If we want to see love in our life we need to become the love we want to have, by loving ourselves.
On a collective or global level we will have many opportunities to love and support each other, with situations, such as those we have already seen happen this year, that remind us of our connection, our need to be kind and loving to each other. We can create love for a loveless world but not by hating those who remind us that love is a choice they do not make. Are we waiting for Prince Charming to ride into our life and bless us with the love we want? That’s a nice thought and each of us can have that when we approach love from the inside out, loving ourselves so much that we create the vibration of unconditional, perfect and lasting love that will attract that love to us.
January 20, 2011 at 7:15 am
This is so beautiful and really touched me as well as makes so much sense. Thank you